Divorce: Why Do Women Want To Change Their Partner – Part 1

There are major, significant differences between
men and women. Women and men are looking for
different things in a relationship because they
have different personalities. It is still a
mystery for men what a woman really wants in a
relationship, what she needs to be happy.

Women have an idealistic view of the relationship
and that is why they want the man to change.
Changes occur every day but rarely do they affect
anyone. Therefore, men refuse to do this, they
usually have the concept that if their woman
loves them, they have to accept them as they are.
If not, they had better change their girlfriends.

People in relationships often have strong
expectations that their partner will be exactly
what they want. You will see that if you meet a
girl and you will have a long relationship with
her, after a while she will try to change you.
When you met her, she was perfect in every sense
of the word. However, after a while, she will try
to make you to be like the person from her
fantasy.

People which try to change other people in a
relationship initially try to make the person out
to be something they were not and try to mold
them in the perfect mate. Nevertheless, a perfect
mate does not exist. Trying to change a person is
a sign of strong possession, to have someone so
strongly that you can actually change his or her
behavior.

Change is not always a bad thing to try to induce,
sometimes your partner can just lack certain
social graces; but change should always be a two
way street with a couple, otherwise you just
controlling the other person.

However, women always seem to want to change the
man they are in love with. Even if they know that
men do not change, yet women try anyway. That
happens because most women enter into a
relationship with unrealistic ideas.

There are girls that have strange ideas about
relationships, and they try to change the person
they meet with a person they loved before, but
this always fail. In addition, they do not
understand why men like going out with their
friends to pubs, even if it is a form of
relaxation, especially in weekends, when they
consider that weekend is for the family to spend
time together.

Hat Tip To: Divorce Advice For Men